As I write this self imposed letter of acknowledgement to myself, I am noticing that I want someone who really doesn’t exist. I am allowing myself to become temporarily engaged in interests, because I do not dare challenge myself to experiencing a long term meaningful relationship. Casual and slightly interested, or someone whose entirely inaccessible remains an immediate interest for me. Closing my heart off to all who dare enter or want to enter, but opening my heart to continued aches and pains from closed off people and their own individual experiences. Is this what I want from life? Is this what I am expecting to continue to happen and also, to continue to be experienced in regards to my dating and relating life and interest? I don’t have all the answers, but I do know is that change occurs when one is ready to make the individual and necessary transitions. I am neither ready entirely or completely cut off from transitioning. I do know that in time my heart and love will be dually received and it will get reciprocated back. I know that there is more to life then hanging around awaiting the development and experience of something to begin, when it will never pilot off the runway. Although I venture to say that perhaps you will divert your time and energy to me, and there I go off again on a wishful thinking cruise, but then I slow down and allow reality and life to remain in front of me. You will not open and close my door for me, or provide me with candy on Valentine’s Day. You will not make it your best effort or take your time to spend it with me. You have continually appeased me to be around you, because all in all you care for me and like me and you are attracted to me, but there is nothing more and further. I have given myself, and time to you and on my own ventured out to be with you, however, you keep closing life’s doors and not letting me in, so I am going to us both a favor and lock this door. I will not venture out to you anymore. I will continue to write about my detoxification from you, because you have tainted my mind, body and soul and I must slowly clear and clean myself of you. So it begins…….
Attention and interest continues to come towards me. I am impressed and pleased that males are taking notice. I am not shrugging them away, but gladly entertaining their interest. Although my heart at times feels stunted, it’s not entirely at a loss and I know I will transcend and push forward and make the most and best of each and every moment. As I toss and turn in my bedroom at night, my solace comes not from the quiet in my apartment, but from the lessening of pain in my heart. I dually know that when its time for me to love again, I truly will open my heart to him. He will deserve because I will know his heart is true. Although we cannot help who we love, we can guide the ones deserving to be loved back into our life. Progress is to be made and will this summer is MINE!
Lesson Fifty Five: There is more…..
Just when you think your life is being swallowed and spit right back at, you’d never know that when you were on the down and coming back up everything was corrected. You experienced something and it was being worked on. Just when I think I have lost each and everything, I am being picked right back up and starting something out entirely new. I am always afforded many blessings and opportunities and as I always say, what must end will only enter something new to begin! Can I get an AMEN!